breakup? don't worry and learn how to get back your life!

Hi This is Rial here well i realised most teenagers age between 13 to 19 fall in ? (attraction) and name it as LOVE but actually after their teen age they come to know what is LOVE and what is LIFE. This post is specially for those who unable to get their life back after breakup. The solution to this will be little bit tricky and philosophical but yeah this is practical too. This matter on how you use this technique in your situation. Before I start with solution let me tell you a basic idea behind this strategy. Ok so we all know that our mind makes lot of thoughts which we cannot control. Our mind is also responsible to make some ROLES. yeah. example: as a Son, Father, Student, Boyfriend and many more... All the roles play a different character in your life no one clash each other but the body still remains same only change in Character/Role. Suppose if a guy  suffering from brakeup because of her girlfriend and that girl is now with any other guy or with no one. It means now there is no role of boyfriend in his character list, because that role is vanished now. If you think practically you will come to know that there is no role of boyfriend but yeah now in human psychology thinks to make one more Role which is EX.BOYFRIEND ? . I appreciate that people think and make different Roles which is very important in development of brain and new idea. This is also important to remove those role which is not important like ex.boyfriend this role don't require any input nor gives you any output. Focus on the Role which is present in your Character list and remove the unwanted one. I hope you guys understand, in case any suggestion or any help reply me on comment section. NOTE : Life is Simple, We make it Complicate.   Rial Shaikh